So you think co-writing a novel might be fun? You’re right— it is fun. But co-writing is also a minefield of logistical and emotional challenges as you hash out plot points, characters and make creative decisions— together.

Pet Sitter: A Jenna Stack Mystery was our first co-authored book. We quickly realized the adventure was going to be bigger than either of us anticipated. The experience went far beyond writing a book; deeply impacting our lives and making us better writers.

Before starting on the second Jenna Stack Mystery we discussed the technical challenges and lessons we learned along the way.

Here is our list of our top ten tips for successfully and happily co-writing a long format project:

1. Pick a partner you respect and trust. We got lucky, our temperaments, talents and quirks were compatible. But you’ll be spending a lot of time together, so choose wisely.

2. Create interesting characters. You’ll be spending as much time with them, as with each other. If a character doesn’t sit right, speak up and noodle it out. You don’t have to love all of your characters, but you do have to understand them.

3. Memorize this mantra: Story comes first. Leave your ego at the door and focus on the well being of the project. Even if an idea is pure genius, it might not work. Let the story dictate when you fight for an idea and when you let it go. Remember, ideas are recyclable.

4. Before you begin writing, discuss scheduling, expectations and division of work. Then write an outline. This leaves more time for constructive, inspired writing and less chance of getting frustrated, derailed or writing yourselves into a corner.

5. Empower each other. Partnership is a built in, ongoing support system. Help each other carve out precious writing time and say “no” to distractions without guilt. Encourage each other – not just for your project but all creative endeavors.

6. Life happens. Plumbing breaks. People get sick. Sometimes the muse just isn’t in the room. Expect and accept disruptions. Writing a novel is an intense process. So cut each other slack when you need a break.

7. Your partner is your first audience. Don’t be shy. Even if an idea seems silly or thinly developed, share it. Batting small ideas back and forth often leads to a BIG idea. That moment is an exhilarating reminder of the magic of creative collaboration.

8. Promote your partner as if you’re her biggest fan. You probably are anyway. If you’re shy about promoting yourself, focus on her. Everything good that happens for her ultimately helps your project.

9. The better you listen, the better the end product will be. Share ideas, concerns and instincts. When an idea isn’t sitting well, or you have trouble explaining a thought, keep pushing through.

10. Be generous. You’ll be amazed at the results. Partnership creates the opportunity to give directly and immediately to another person. If you’re lucky enough to be writing with someone you like, practice generosity unabashedly. We guarantee your project will be better and your life will too.